Dearmouring demystified and explained.

Release Emotional and Energetic Tensions,Traumas, Blockages, and Pain from the Body in a Healthy, Loving and Safe way.

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Dearmouring can be done externally or internally using bodywork, through conversation and talk-therapy, or using energy-work.


What is Dearmouring?

Dearmouring is a specific approach to personal transformation. It’s a deep cleanse on every level of our being: physical, emotional, mental, energetic, and spiritual. It releases various pains, blockages, and traumas stored in our system, leaving us deeply relaxed, soft, velvety, and vibrant; open to feelings and inner wisdom; and free of stuck emotions, unhealthy patterns, and old pain.
When we’re dearmoured, we reconnect with the beauty and joy of life. We connect with our true selves and with our deeper purpose. We become authentic, empowered, and expressed human beings.

Dearmouring can be done externally or internally using bodywork, conversation and talk-therapy, or using energy-work. 

Conversation based dearmouring, uses coaching and talk-therapy tools to probe, touch and help express your armour through words and sounds, and without
touching your body at all.

External dearmouring works on the outside of the body. Using various pressure points to stimulate and intensify the energy flow through the body. Specifically focusing on the points that will have an emotional response, or points that are emotionally ‘charged’, and that once stimulated, will lead to an emotional or energetic release. As the energy intensifies in the body, we follow its flow and help it express more and more.

The throat holds a lot of tension and is armoured in most people. This is connected with our ability to express our true nature, our full potential, and to take full responsibility for our lives. To be totally responsible requires the ability to express ourselves authentically in every situation and at all times. As we know, this is not easy. Yet the more we open our throat, the more we’re able to step into our power.

Yoni dearmouring is not a yoni massage or a tantric massage, and it’s not designed to pleasure you. Sometimes it is referred to as a “sacred spot” healing. It’s a powerful healing process that will help you remove pain stored and held there.

These pains are generated by: unconscious or angry sex, years of emotional torment, shame and guilt, years of not honouring and listening to your body, having sex that doesn’t feel good or right for you, having unclear and weak boundaries, and many other experiences.

Benefits of yoni dearmouring:

The less armour your yoni holds, the more open, youthful, and vibrant you’ll look and feel.

After dearmouring you will feel: 

  • soft
  • velvety
  • juicy
  • sensitive
  • readily moist for love-making
  • and able to feel deeper pleasure all over your body and in your heart..

Symptoms of an armoured yoni include:

  • Hard tissue along the walls of the yoni
  • Small grain-like lumps
  • Numb areas or total numbness
  • Dryness
  • Lack of sensitivity
  • Contracted and hard inner muscles
  • A hard and overly sensitive cervix
  • Pain during love-making
  • Inability to experience deep yoni orgasms, or G-spot and full body orgasms
  • No orgasms at all
  • A need to rub your clit hard (as the only way for you to climax).

If you feel any of those symptoms, your yoni is in a need of dearmouring. This loving process may take more then one session, depending on how much amour there is, and it’s different for every woman.

If you never had your lingam dearmoured it most likely holds a lot of unnecessary tension. As a vulnerable body part, and due to shame, guilt, ridicule or bullying, it collects and holds stress and tension, it contracts, sometimes shrinks in size, becomes insensitive or overly sensitive, or the flow of power can reduce.

Benefits of lingam dearmouring can include:

  • keeping it alive, sensitive and potent
  • increasing the size of your lingam
  • increasing your confidence as a lover and a man
  • helping you with different types of sexual dysfunctions
  • helping you become a better lover.

This process is vital for all men and should be done form time to time as a regular practise to make sure the energy flow is abundant.

Anal dearmouring is especially important for men’s health, sexual potency, and myriad of other benefits. Of course it’s important for women too, but for men it holds a key to retention of our power.

If the anal sphincter is armoured it can hold deep rooted fears as well as other emotions, shame, guilt, and many other disempowering constructs. And will be physically tight. As such, it will act as a ‘road block’ for the potent life force energy or “kundalini” to travel into the body. So, once you get excited and sexual energy increases in your base, if your anus is tight the energy will follow the path of least resistance and will flow out of your body. You are then more likely to ejaculate as a way of releasing the pressure.  

Once you start removing that armour and relaxing the sphincter, the energy will be able to flow up into the spine instead of out of the body and re-energise your whole system with its potent power. It will enable you to last much much longer without ejaculating, thus helping with premature ejaculation problems, and will open the door for experiencing full body orgasm.

It will take some practise before the sphincter is fully dearmoured, and once fully dearmoured this process needs to become an occasional practise to make sure you don’t accumulate new fears in your body and contract again. This practise you can do yourself, or with your partner. Once you learn how, it is easy to do.

Please understand that everything written on this site is NOT medical advice, and should you feel concerned for your physical health you should seek advice from a medical doctor.

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