LoveCore Way

Our approach is Loving, yet Intense and Direct

The Truth of Who You Are Hides in the Shadows, Not in Plain Sight.

As if it did, You Wouldn’t be Searching for it, Nor Reading This.

Dearmouring can be done using:

Conversation
Bodywork
Presence
Energywork
Sound
Breath

Dearmouring is Art

In a sentence;

Anything that stands between me and God, or full Mastery of my Being is Armour.

So Dearmouring is not a One-Time-Thing, or a “Press-Here, Press-There, and Voila…”

It a LifeStyle!

Dearmouring is an Art Form.
 
It’s a dance between the practitioner and the receiver, a meeting of two Souls, two nervous systems, two histories, two Human Beings.
 

Shaped by Resonance, Presence, Intuition, and the willingness to Surrender to what unfolds.

It is not just DOING. It is BEING.
 
Dearmouring is a LifeStyle, a practice of Deep Listening. Not only to another’s body but to the space in-between, to the Energy that moves, to the emotions that arise and dissolve.

 

It is leadership – not through control but through Resonance.

What makes it an Art Form is the Unseen, and like all true art, it is never fixed. It Evolves, Expands, and Transforms with every touch, every breath, every session.

 
Is this for you?

Honestly, all of us are likely candidates for this kind of work.

It just depends if you’re ready at this time or not.

You’ll know you’re ready when you had enough of yourself.

When you get sick and tired of being sick and tired about your life.

And are ready to do something about it …

Then it’s time to get in touch !

The Outcome
When you’re Dearmoured, you Connect to Beauty and Joy of Life. You reconnect with your True Self and with your Purpose. You become Authentic, Empowered, and Fully Expressed Human Being.
On a macro level:
A LifeStyle of dedicated practise cutting deeper and deeper into your inner core. Gradually exposing that amazing pure Light residing inside your Being.
 
On a more human level:
Dearmouring is a specific approach to personal transmutation. An alchemical process, or a deep cleanse, on every level of your being: Physical, Emotional, Mental, Energetic, and Spiritual.
 
It releases various Pains, Stuck Energy, Unhealthy/Destructive Patterns, Negative Belief Systems, Blockages, Traumas, Fears and old Unwanted Habits stored in your Being.
 
Leaving you Deeply Relaxed, Soft, Velvety, and Vibrant; open to Feelings and Inner Wisdom.
 
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What students say
“I see a lot of love and compassion in you. And you are very human, not feeling better than others. It is your unique combination of attractive masculine presence, loving care and not rating yourself that has strongly inspired me."
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Dimitri
"De'an, as well as being a trusted friend, is a very gifted and intuitive practitioner with a very grounded and intimate knowledge of the body and it's well being. I feel very honoured to have this opportunity to journey and work deeply with him in order to better understand myself and help realise my full physical, emotional and overall human potential."
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Conversation Based Dearmouring or Talk Therapy

Conversation based Dearmouring is a super efficient and precise way of skillfully guiding someone into their Authentic self. 

We use coaching and talk-therapy tools to help touch and express the armour, without touching the body at all.

By directly and lovingly asking questions that guide a person deeper within, we help them get in touch with parts of themselves that are rarely, or never, talked about or exposed. By doing so it lifts a heavy load, or burden of their shoulders so to speak.

And it can be done anywhere. At work, at home, or over a nice dinner.

 

Bodywork

Dearmouring can be done externally, on the outside of the body, or internally.

– External Dearmouring

Works on the outside of the body. Using various pressure points to stimulate and intensify the energy flow through the body. Specifically focusing on the points that will have an emotional/energetic response, or points that are ‘charged’, and that once stimulated, will lead to an emotional or energetic release. As the energy intensifies in the body, we follow its flow and help it express more and more until the flow is established.

– Throat Dearmouring

The throat holds a lot of tension and is armoured in most people. This is connected with our ability to express our true nature, our full potential, and to take full responsibility for our lives. To be totally responsible requires the ability to express ourselves authentically in every situation and at all times. As we know, this is not easy. Yet the more we open our throat, the more we’re able to step into our power.

– Yoni (vaginal) Dearmouring

Yoni dearmouring is not a yoni massage or a tantric massage, and it’s not designed to pleasure you. Sometimes it is referred to as a “sacred spot” healing. It’s a powerful healing process that will help you remove pain stored and held there.

These pains are generated by: unconscious or angry sex, years of emotional torment, shame and guilt, years of not honouring and listening to your body, having sex that doesn’t feel good or right for you, having unclear and weak boundaries, and many other experiences.

Benefits of yoni dearmouring:

The less armour yoni holds, the more you’ll feel.

  • soft
  • open
  • youthful
  • velvety
  • juicy
  • sensitive
  • readily moist for love-making
  • and able to feel deeper pleasure all over your body and in your heart..

– Lingam (cock) Dearmouring

If you never had your lingam dearmoured it most likely holds a lot of unnecessary tension. As a vulnerable body part, and due to shame, guilt, ridicule or bullying, it collects and holds stress and tension, it contracts, sometimes shrinks in size, becomes insensitive or overly sensitive, or the flow of power can reduce.

Benefits of lingam dearmouring can include:

  • keeping it alive, sensitive and potent
  • increasing the size of your lingam
  • increasing your confidence as a lover and a man
  • helping you with different types of sexual dysfunctions
  • helping you become a better lover.

This process is vital for all men and should be done form time to time as a regular practise to make sure the energy flow is abundant.

– Anal Dearmouring

Anal dearmouring is especially important for men’s health, sexual potency, and myriad of other benefits. Of course it’s important for women too, but for men it holds a key to retention of our power.

If the anal sphincter is armoured it can hold deep rooted fears as well as other emotions, shame, guilt, and many other disempowering constructs. And will be physically tight. As such, it will act as a ‘road block’ for the potent life force energy or “kundalini” to travel into the body. So, once you get excited and sexual energy increases in your base, if your anus is tight the energy will follow the path of least resistance and will flow out of your body. You are then more likely to ejaculate as a way of releasing the pressure.

Once you start removing that armour and relaxing the sphincter, the energy will be able to flow up into the spine instead of out of the body and re-energise your whole system with its potent power. It will enable you to last much much longer without ejaculating, thus helping with premature ejaculation problems, and will open the door for experiencing full body orgasm.

It will take some practise before the sphincter is fully dearmoured, and once fully dearmoured this process needs to become an occasional practise to make sure you don’t accumulate new fears in your body and contract again. This practise you can do yourself, or with your partner. Once you learn how, it is easy to do.

 

Dearmouring with Presence

There are two sides to this.

  • We can use personal presence in such a way that others simply trust us. The energy we emanate allows them to deeply relax into trust. They feel held and loved in our presence. It’s not a mental or intellectual thing, but an energetic understanding. And because they trust us, they are willing, and able to, let go of their long held armour, just by being in our presence.
  • The other side one is surrendering to, and inviting, the “bigger picture” or the God, to work through us. Call it whatever you want; God, Allah, Creator, Great Central Sun, The Source … It’s not a religious thing. Point is there is a Force that oversees and governs the whole existence, and we are a part of it. And that Force has our best interest at heart. If we surrender to it and invite it in, the positive effects of our sessions are magnified exponentially.

 

Dearmouring with Energy
or Energywork

Energywork is an advanced Art form of manipulating, affecting and moving energy, using the magnetic and electric currents within our own body.

By focusing on a variety of particular frequencies, we can either increase, decrease or transmute the state of our clients energy field to help establish a free flow within their body, and to help them express stuck or dense energy.

It can be done either by touching the body, with hands close to the body, or from a distance.

 

Dearmouring With Sound

Sound a very potent tool in Dearmouring. Its power of Resonance is awesome.

It touches and reverberates through the body with precision and ease.

When used and directed consciously, sound vibrates, opens and releases the energy held deep within.

Frequently used directly on the Energy Body, or to access parts of the body held within the bonny structure like chest, pelvis or the back.

Dearmouring With Breath

Breath is an important tool when working on ourselves or with our clients.

It can be used in a variety of ways. It acts as an energetic “pump”, taking, moving, replacing, or dispersing the energy within the body.

We can use it to deepen the connection with ourselves, focus our mind, to unlock emotions, or inspire energy flow.

If directed, or focused on a particular part of the body, it acts as a “knife”, or a “dart” cutting into deep layers of our body/mind system, helping us access, affect and shift energy field.